Sunday, September 28, 2008






Pictures of our last final days in China






Finally Home!!

We are finally home!! We left Guangzhou on Friday morning at 5:45 heading to Tokyo on a 4 hour flight. We got onto our 10 hour connection in Tokyo but after being in the air about 45 minutes the pilot alerted us that we would be turning around and heading back to Tokyo due to mechanical difficulties (both stabilizers went out). We had to hover over the ocean about 1 hour before landing to dump a lot of fuel so when we landed the plane would not catch on fire (comforting to know!!) . We heard that it was about $100,000 worth of fuel. We were suppose to all get back on to another plane within the hour but after that time, they ended up cancelling the flight and re-routing everying the following afternoon. Needless to say the craziness began with the Japanese trying to figure everthing out for us. They had to open the immigration office for us so we could get temporary visas to enter Japan since we only had visas to enter China and Carissa had only one to enter America. They sent us all to hotels with food vouchers and then we found out our flight schedules the next morning. Many families were split up on different flights. We were all together except Curt's mom but we were able to switch her to our flight. We did, however, end up with bulk head seats which were GREAT!! We also got 27,000 more flight miles for each of us so that is a free flight somewhere in the US. Maybe we will use it for Disney next summer!!!



I did not post while in Guangzhou due to our busy schedules (shopping most of the time!!) and our limited access to a computer. We arrived in Guangzou Monday evening and ate at Lucy's. They served most American food and we LOVED IT!! They had the best french fries. We looked through a few stores that evening before heading back to the White Swan. That was my favorite hotel of all. They were so nice and the whole area we were in catered to us American's and adoptive families. I guess it's because we all spend money shopping there!!



On Tuesday we shopped in the morning and then in the afternoon our Bethany group took the babies for their medical exams. There were three stations and they all went quickly. Some cried and some didn't. Carissa only fussed a little when getting her measurements. According to them her weight is 24 lbs. and height is 29". She goes to her first American doctor's appointment on Tuesday morning so we will know more on her ear condition and her weight and height. Should be fun!! We shopped for a little while in the afternoon before our group got together for a traditional Chinese dinner around a big table. That was the best Chinese we had eaten the whole trip. We then shopped more after dinner before meeting with our group leader, Shiyan, to make sure we had all of our paperwork in order. We had to re-fill out two different forms because ours were out of date (several of us had to do this). We also found out that Shiyan had put the wrong babies picture on Carissa;s medical file that was going to the U.S. Consulate the next day so we had schedule to go back to the medical office to get that straightened out before going to the consulate the next morning. She then later called me to let me know that another form was not properly notarized by my SW so Curt had to go with her to the consulate the next day.



Wednesday was suppose to be our free day, while Shiyan delivered all of our paperwork to the U.S. Consulate. I was to meet her at 7:30 to go the medical office and then go with her to the consulate. When I got up I looked outside to see that the street were flooded to peoples knees. A typhoon had hit Guangzhou on the other side but the river had risen and flooded some of the stores. Shiyan and I were supposed to walk several blocks to the medical office so we were not able to before we left for the consulate. Curt decided to go in my place so he went with Shiyan then by the time they got back to water had receeded and he went in my place to the medical office. Shiyan then took it back to the consulate that afternoon to fix the problem. We enjoyed more shopping that afternoon in between down pours of rain from the typhoon. At least it was cooler. We were disappointed that we didn't get to swim in the beautiful White Swan pools. Somehow the yucky waters had gotten into the pools so they had to close them. I didn't even get to see the beautiful water falls outside but the inside of the hotel was beautiful. That evening we went to a wonderful Italian restaurant that many had recommended. It was such a delight to finally eat some normal foods and the pizza was incredible.



On Thursday morning we met as a group for the red couch pictures. We had three girls in our group from the Hunan province. They were sooo good getting their pictures taken. I was even able to get a bow that a local store owner given her (for her future hair-ha! ha!) to stay for a little while. She was soooo cute in her traditional Chinese outfits and squeeky shoes (which she loves). Later that afternoon we along with other familes from other agencies met at the U.S. Consulate for the rest of our pick up our paperwork and for our swearing in. It was official she was finally ours and on her way to becoming a U.S. Citizen. She fell asleep about 5 minutes before the swearing in so she missed it. We were not allowed cameras so we don't have any pictures from that day. We went back to Lucy's for dinner with our new friends and "spicy girl" parents. It was so much fun getting to know everyone from our group and other groups as we all begin this new journey together. I know many of us will stay in touch with each other. We then packed for a LONG journey home. I posted at the beginning about our extra day in Tokyo so I won't repeat that.



Once we finally arrived in Minneapolis we were directed to customs and went through like a breeze in less than 15 minutes. I was expecting 2 hours. Babies do come in handy at times!! We were able to go out to the main part and meet with Curt's dad, sister Katy and his sister Sue and her family. They won't see Carissa for a while so they joined us at the airport there. We had a short flight home to Grand Rapids then were greeted by some great friends. All except one has adopted children from China and Russia. Carissa was a little shy but seemed to not mind it. She is so easy going right now. She didn't like the car seat ride home. That was the first time she really screamed and cried. She has never been in one so it was new to her. We are going to have to do some adjusting to fit her. Hopefully next time will be better.



Our sleep patterns today were a little out of wack but we all fee much better tonight and pray that she stays asleep. We just put her down for the night at 10:00 p.m. It will take about a week to get back to a normal schedule.



I am posting some pictures from the rest of our trip. I will also post most of our entire trip on my facebook if anyone is interested in all of them.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

The rest of the pictures!!

The last two days!

We have one more day here in Changsha (thank goodness!!). We are all going stir crazy. Curt is not feeling well and I was not feeling well yesterday (that's why I didn't post). Yesterday we went to the Martyrs Park and to the Silk Factory. It is ridiculously HOT here with a ton of smog. It is so hard to even step outside so we all just hang out in the hotel pretty much. Today we went to the Provincial Museum which was cooler. Tomorrow we leave the hotel in the afternoon and fly to Guangzhou to finish up our paperwork at the U.S. Embassy. We will be able to "safely" go out side and shop for about three days (when we aren't doing "business). The traffic here is really crazy. There would be some major road rage if we drove like they do here but amazingly enough there aren't many accidents. You have to see it to believe it. Cars, buses, people, bikes and scooters all on the same busy road. Even on the side walks (that is why we stay inside a building). They don't stop for people, you just gotta run!!

I am sending more pictures. Sorry for no captions but for dad. We went to Wal-mart and the picture of food is of dried intestines. They eat just about every part of an animal. There meat department is just laid out there for you to grab. GROSS!!!! However, they are so particular in the hotel that you have to wear a cap to swim, hence the pictures of Carissa in a cap. Curt and Ryan had taken theirs off. The smell of the meat department made my stomach turn a bit!!

We thank you for all of your prayers. She is really warming up to us and playing very well. We are teaching her many tricks. She is silly!!

Some of the pictures of the other little girls are Jade and Alyssa. There are three families here in Hunan and we will join up with the other Bethany families tomorrow afternoon. Jade will live in New Jersey and Alyssa will live in Tennessee. She had a Tennessee outfit on yesterday. She is the oldest at 18 months old but the tiniest little thing (and I do mean tiny!!). We got them to take a picture on the steps at our hotel this morning. They are our three spice girls!!

I will type more in a couple of days. Tomorrow we will be packing and traveling to Guanghzou.

Friday, September 19, 2008

A variety of pictures from our trip so far

Now that I figured out the picture thing. I am sending a few more pics from our days in Beijing. We will be here in Changsha until Monday afternoon (Monday morning for you guys). We have to wait for the paperwork to be finished and processed. Today we went to one of the oldest Ancient Universities on the world. It was soooooooo hot that we were all sweating from places we didn't know you could sweat. The humidity here is crazy. We all took a dip in the pool when we got back. There are three families from our agency here. Carissa is the youngest but the biggest. The oldest one Alyssa is a tiny little thing at 18 months old (and I do mean TINY!!). Many of you know that we had requested information on two babies back in April and she was one of them. Her parents are from Tenessee and she is their first child. Their log in date is the same as ours so they to have waited for three years as is the case with most of our group and other people we have met from other agencies. We have met people with Great Wall and CCAI as well as several from Hawaii. They are all leaving today for Guangzhou as we stay on until Monday.

Tomorrow we will go to the Silk Factory and a nearby famous park (cannot remember the name). I will post more as I can now that I have this picture thing figured out and Carissa is adjust well to all of us.

I can't believe what a sweet disposition she has. Today she has really come out of her shell and is becoming really fun and silly. She seems to love to be held and cuddled (not a problem for me). She also loves to read books, play with her stacking cups and bang on things. I can't wait for everyone to meet her.

Bye for today and will post more tomorrow!!

PICTURES FINALLY!!

I think I finally found the way to post pictures. I hope this works!!